My entry on Aftermath was meant to give a final closure on the whole financial saga but it was not that successful.
From the series of comments, the difference between a matured adult and an immature one is so obvious. I am thankful to those who wrote with a balanced view and hope those who wrote without truly understanding my thoughts should try to have some self-discipline to first seek full understanding before opening your mouth.
These little comments are really living proof - choosing to listen to only what they want to listen, but when things go wrong, they point fingers and said they were not told. Just go through those comments and you see, many, despite after reading what was written, either interpreted the way they want, or chose to only pick up (or some even best, ADD words) what they want to understand and link all the contents the way I never meant to be.
I'm glad we have all these black and whites as reflection of a typical communication pattern.
But I must also admit I do fall into this trap of jumping to conclusion at times, and I'm still trying to learn. I guess the most important thing is to have insight about yourself to grow as a person.
So if you are one, try to reflect, learn to develop your insights on life (and yourself). I believe the world would be a better place if we have more of those matured adults in this world.
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