That was exactly the reason why I didn't choose to post some comments or react to them at all at first. I tell myself I will continue to do that. It's MY blog and I choose what I like to do.
Nonetheless, like what I always do, I did an analysis on their psychology behind their actions.
And I can only come up with one conclusion - unresolved conflicts.
People with unresolved conflicts (whether it is with someone else or with themselves) normally act out in ways that seems offending. Their target group of people might be those who are in the same group of people who had 'offended' them previously, or might be innocent parties who just so happened to cross their paths.
Many of them may also have disturbed childhood, most of the time abuse. So quite a bit of work needs to be done.
For these people, I advise they seek therapy. They are normally the people we term them as 'difficult' who has difficult expressing what they really want or think. They are the types who presents bitterness and anger in them over every little thing they see. They are also the type who lead an angry life, have little friends and are not close to their family members and colleagues. And when they die, there's no eulogy about them because no one bothers to.
Psychotherapists are easily available in Singapore these days. If not, I can also recommend one Hypnotherapist who can help you identify what is the problem in you that has been so destructing. If nothing helps, then go see a Shrink.
Take care, my friend.
People, I'm referring to some weirdos who are leaving comments which are totally out of context. Looks like not only do they have unresolved conflicts, they may also have Dyslexia, Attention Deficit Disorder.
And for kind souls who want to help me improve my English, you may want to give yourself a nick to differentiate yourself from those lunatics.
Oh, Shrinks can't shrink ego. And for someone to be able to accept and acknowledge my weaknesses, I'm certainly not one with high ego. Haha.
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These "no names" peeps are losers who hide behind the curtains and "spoof" you whenever they can, by constantly read your blog and diligently read through word by word with a spell check installed in their narrow minded brains. So, give them a thumbs up for efforts made. They do care....
Losers, wanna go for a TOEFL test with Luxelass to see whose english is more "powderful" (In case you think i mispelt, I know its POWERFUL) before you start judging? In case you do not know what TOEFL is, I am not going to spoonfeed you, but I can drop a hint to you and that is to check the DICTIONARY.
Actually I'm referring to those wierdos who mentioned about 'Psychology', "Sia Suay" and "RM". Totally out of point, that's why I wonder if they lost too much money in the financial crisis and became mad
That's why I said they have unresolved conflicts themselves. It's a tedious process to help them. They must first have the insight to the issue, then we can start psychotherapy. But then again if cognitively they cannot cope with the therapy, then maybe medical treatment (or shocking) may have to come in.
For the latter, they might be then diagnosed with Schiz (since hallucinations and delusions are one of the few classified under the DSM IV Psychiatric disorders. And in this case, it's no longer Psychological disorders, but Psychiatric!
Then it is going to be even a more difficult challenge!
kaypoh mui, instead of mediating you are stoking the fire.What do you gain from this?
Who wants your hug? It is dangeropus
You know what. Too many anonymous. We get all confused between the good and the bad!
Miu is protective of me..I believe her intention was not to worsen the situation.
Life is hard enough. Take a chill pill.
For the siao ones, they ought to take a siao pill.
Hahaha.
i like you.You can take nonsense into your strides. You have a good sense of humour. I wonder you are married. Why don't you post your picture?
Chin up, girl
I used to be very hung up on things. But I realise this is only a blog, my life does not circle around it. I have a full time and important job with lots of lovely friends and caring family members. Most importantly, once we have empowerment, we will not be easily affected by petty stuff like this.
And yes, I'm married. (But I don't think it's correlated, yes?).
Thanks for the encouragement. The GSS is indeed chinning me up!
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