Saturday, March 28, 2009

I will reflect

Decide to take days off to reflect.

Just as some think that they cannot tahan my towhong, I also cannot stand it. I get angry with myself after my towhongness too. 

I get them whenever I get hurt by some silly comments - which may not have any ill intended meaning, but I'd be all scrunched up with the meanings I add them myself and start spinning out of control. And the outcome = Towhong.

And it's frustrating. 

I will start from being less reactive first. That's a first step, I tell myself. Let's use 1 month to proof myself!


3 comments:

kohpeganz said...

OMG... sorry missy, when i read this, i burst out laughing... not becos of the content but your choice of words. haha. tow hong!!! yes, i will be frank, sometimes you get yourself into unnecessary frenzy... in hokkien, it's tow hong... cute lar u!

deLuxique said...

I'm the classic worrier who worries over every single thing. It's the true friends who really see the reasons behind that do not get angry with me, which I thank you!!

And because I'm a worrier, I imagine all worst case scenarios. And yes, I do like to imagine. Because it's automatic!!

Oh by the way girlie, the towhong thingy was quoted from an anonymous, whom I'm sure who knows me pretty well.

kohpeganz said...

har?

really?

I thought it's you term it yourself...

aiya i on 2day mc,... yesterday 3am i cannot breathe properly so rush to ttsh. then the diagnosis is bronchitis, hypersensitive airway and possible asthma... so suay.

i so tired now.